You may listen to what I’m about to say, you may not… I believe that you are in charge of your life and I want you to feel that way, empowered, independent, and strong. Throughout your life you will date a lot of different people. you will probably meet your first love in high school. You need to know and understand some things that will help you along the way, and hopefully will make all the difference in how your future turns out.
The things is, in life, there are consequence for every action you take, whether you can foresee it or not… I’m not talking about punishments or being grounded…I’m talking about your daily decisions, of whether you’re going to your friends house or not, whether you tell a lie or not, whether you take school seriously or not etc… Remember what I said, you’re in charge of your life.
A lot of things will be out of your hand but all you can do is think thoroughly before making choices. Understand the possibilities… you are in charge of what happens in your life, and only you can change the direction of your destiny.
Before entering a long term relationship with a man, analyze him and decide whether you can live with all the things you dont like as well. Consider life goals, plans, sense of urgency, morals and values, physical needs, what kind of kids you two could create… but at the same time don’t just make the safe choice.
Follow your heart, keep a wondering mind, and always 2 feet on the ground.